good morning RLR - I usually check in in the evening before I switch off for the night and switch on the telly (and avoid medical dramas) but I actually didn't see your replies till this morning - so sadly not real time. LOL

RLR - I didn't mean I was literally going to 'go away'.     I wasn't feeling hard done to at all!
It's probably an english phrase that doesn't translate Stateside.
Sorry about the misunderstanding. This is part of the problem of emails and online forums, don't you think, sometimes we can't pick up tone of voice or subtleties in tone - which can lead to misunderstandings.

Point taken about not being able to create a reality that is real rather than imagined. Such is my head at the moment. I may post on that topic another time!

bead x