Hi Lorrie,
Welcome to this board. You have definitely come to the right place and I can tell you with all honesty that I can relate (except for the menopause as I am 31 and have not quite hit that yet.. =o) ).
I too get LOTS of pvc's. I can feel totally relaxed and yet my heart will skip every other beat and sometimes many, many in a row. I am use to them, but they still do bother me.
I can only imagine how many I am getting. I know its WAY up there in the thousands, but I am still here and they are still considered benign. In fact, my Cardiologist at my last appt suggested a holter and I declined because I knew it would only make me more anxious to know "how many" pvc's I am getting. As long as they are benign, I figure what would it change to know the number? For me it would only make me more anxious.
I find distraction helps in dealing with these as well as understanding where they originate from. If we can understand where they originate (stimulation from the vagus nerve via the sympathetic/parasympathetic nervous system, which controls the fight or flight response), then we will know they are not dangerous.
These can not harm us (and trust me I too am coming to realize this as awful as they feel) and our Dr's and RLR on here would NOT tell us this if it was not true. I trust what my Dr. says and what RLR says as well.
I am sorry you have to do through these. I have been getting continous pvc's for well over 2 months straight of beat, pvc, beat, beat, pvc, pvc, pvc, pvc, pvc, and on and on for like I said over 2 months straight and they DO wear on a person, but they can not harm us.
The KEY is controlling our anxious thoughts and addressing any underlying anxiety/thought patterns that may be contributing to this. And even though we do not feel readily anxious, does not mean we are not anxious. I think the fact that any one of us on here looking for reassurance/answers if proof that we are indeed anxious to some degree, right?
My hugs are sent to you and know you are NOT alone. There are many, many of us going through the same thing and we understand how you feel.
Feel free to post anytime with questions, venting or whatever. That's what we are here for is to support and get support.

I am thinking of you. These pvc's will get better and we will be OK!
Hugs,
Steff