I am so confused and miserable.
My only daughter who is single, just had a baby on the 5th of May.
I was the only person she had to help her the 9 months and I worried about her a lot.
Anyway, she bought a house while she was pregnant and it was nerve wracking because the closing of the house was down to days before she would have to be out of her apt.  She was crying and upset until it went through and so was I.  She had to get out of her apt because they had it rented out.
Anyway, I packed her whole apt. and when she moved, I unpacked it all put everything away at her new house.
Then, I moved in with her so I could be with her when she went into labor.
She went into labor the next day and we went to the hospital and were sent back home.
Meanwhile, I am sleeping on a futon in her spare room that had a steel bar running through the middle.
A few days later, she went into labor, and I took her to the hospital.
I was her labor coach and she had the baby.
After she went home, I stayed with her again.  I would wake up and help her with the baby in the middle of the night.
I was getting so tired, that after a week I went home.
I didn't have time when I went through that baby ordeal with her to worry about my heart palpitations, but now that I'm home, I really tired and sleepy, have tension in my neck and heart palpitations.
When she calls me or needs help, I get even more anxious.
One day my heart was racing and I had a panic attack.
I would like to know if I feel this way because off what I've been through.
I am really scared.
Please give me your opinion.

Thanks!

Thanks,
I am her mother!

Okay, I've read your post but I'm rather uncertain of the specific nature of your question.

I know the historical account, so please just tell me what your question is with regard to the situation.

Best regards and Good Health

I can only offer my opinion..  A lot of times we can go through this big ordeals in our family and make it just fine, and it isn't until after everything is over with and all is quiet again that our body react from the previous stressful situation.    So Just keep your wits about you and this will pass, once you are well rested again .  Eat right, drink water, exercise and above all else don't worry about the palps,  you just went through a lot so don't add worry to your list.  Go on and enjoy the new baby... take pictures  get involved and live your life to the fullest.

Best Regards
KC

I think the fact that I am always worried about making things right for others, especially my daughter, is stressful.  I worried about her and tried to make everything right.  I am in counseling now for those tendencies.