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I can't get this straight
Sep 17th, 2007, 1:35am
 
Hi there
I just can't get this straight. After over a year of palpitations (ectopics and racing heart episodes) I am getting worse rather than better. This doesn't make sense to me since my anxiety is much better than it was (panic attacks are much less frequent - perhaps one per week compared to four a day) so why aren't the problems with my heart getting better.

Is it a case of... now my heart has learned to behave like that, am I stuck with it? I have never heard of anyone who had ectopics all day long, every time they stood up, climbed the stairs, sat down, went to the toilet or whatever. Racing heart episodes seem to be getting more frequent too.

I am starting to be concerned that I am never going to have a normal life again - free of discomfort and dizzy feelings.

I so much want to hear that there is hope or light at the end of the tunnel, but my cardiologist has given me no hope and the GP, so far, has been proved wrong.

Now I am looking to the future and knowing that probably as soon as I get a touch of heart disease I am going to drop down dead of this problem because the problems are so constant (I wouldn't mind if it was once a week or even once a day, but all day long is fairly wearing.)

Looking for advice again, I'm afraid. Thanks for reading
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Re: I can't get this straight
Reply #1 - Sep 17th, 2007, 9:53am
 
While panic thresholds may be less frequent, anxiety may continue to persist at levels certainly capable of disturbing the nervous system.

The content of your posting is clearly significant for anxiety and worry. Subjectively trying to measure your level of anxiety and making comparisons can quickly lead to frustration.

You need to focus upon working through the anxiety, regardless of what form it exists to cause physical symptoms.

Finally, this condition will never damage your heart nor cause you to "drop dead" as a consequence of any synergistic effect from other disorders that may arise. You are experiencing symptoms only, which are not damaging your heart in any manner whatsoever.

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Reply #2 - Sep 17th, 2007, 11:17am
 
Hi RLR
thanks for your reply as always.
I understand... so what you are saying is that anxiety needs to get a lot lower than it is. I wish I could just forget about it all actually. If only I could, perhaps that is the magic key.
I have actually done some work for the first time in nearly two years this weekend (I'm a writer) and am hoping if I can get some more it might be something that can take my mind of myself. My youngest boy has just started part-time preschool so I will have the luxury of more time on my hands, where I hope to do some working from home.

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Reply #3 - Sep 17th, 2007, 1:12pm
 
Well, many people believe that the answer is to "forget" about their worries. In truth, this is not possible. The actual key is developing proper perspective based upon a factual interpretation of issues regarding your life. For example, people who have health anxiety typically suffer because they misinterpret physical signs and use subjective reasoning to develop a perspective, which often serves as the source of their anxiety. For example, if they use subjective reasoning to believe that they may have cancer, then the fear becomes very real. This misinterpretation is reinforced by exposure to media information about symptoms, etc. that are quickly paired with symptoms the person may be sensing, causing fear and alarm to become even more elevated. It must be remembered that this entire process virtually always takes place in the absence of medical training to discern actual circumstances from those perceived.  

Once this process is firmly entrenched, emotions begin to weigh in and the person's outlook and desire to engage in activities such as hobbies, social gatherings and even occupational endeavors,  can become greatly diminished. The person feels that it's no longer worth feeling excited about life and things ahead in life if that life is imminently threatened. They become overly cautious about undertaking physical activities because their bodies feel "fragile" and inacapable of performing without inducing complications, possibly even death.

Imagine the quandry; Afraid of death, afraid of life.

It places a person in jeopardy regardless.

The key is perspective. If you've been given a day, then embrace it and make it all that you can. If you're given another, treat it as an even greater benefit rather than with complacency. Remember that physical existence is merely coincidental to the actual intent of life.

You have a long life ahead of you. Never spend time worrying about how long, but rather what kind of life.

Worrisome anxiety is actually a feeling of loss of control in some respects. So don't let your mind play tricks on you and when presented with a situation that typically invokes worry or anxiety, use intellect to break it free from subjectivity, analyze it for factual basis, make a determination about your options and then take action to make it work to your best possible advantage.  

You're going to be just fine.

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