We went over the issue of control in the early postings of the thread, have you read those?
Your experience with cars is interesting. Since you race in cars mabye you have desensitised yourself to the fear of crashing and dying? We're all different, but it's the same fear that stops people from getting on a plane or boat: you can't control the situation if it goes bad. I have started to get anxious as a passenger in the car with my mum. She drives unreasonably fast on the motorway, gets close to cars in front and seems to have poor control over the brakes (she slows down gradually then slams them on for a second at the end).
I was offered a holiday at the end of this year but have declined because I don't want to get on a plane. That's not the only reason, I would get on one if it was somewhere I really wanted to see, but the plane is a conveniant excuse for me to not go. I didn't let that reason be known, and I know statistically it's much less likely to crash than a car, but that doesn't seem to help. A crash in a plane during flight is pretty much guaranteed to be fatal, whereas a car is not. You can't really have a "mild" plane crash, unless it's before take-off or after landing, but in a car you might only crash going 20 mp/h.
I have always thought to myself that I would carry a parachute on a plane if I had to get on one, but that wouldn't help much if it was over the ocean. I would also require a boat, food and water. I wonder if you can get packs which include a self inflating boat and parachute attached? Regardless, food and water would still be required.
Well anyway, yes control is a big factor and something which we must learn to overcome. We can only control a small fraction of our body's functions such as movement, speech, etc. and we don't become paranoid about the other body functions over which we have no control. I don't see anyone having panic attacks about not being able to regulate their own body temperature at will. The heart though, is obviously perceived as a much more dangerous and urgent organ to malfunction, but there are many functions which we can't control that would kill is just as quickly if they were to malfunction. Digestion, for example; if we were to stop digesting food we would die an even worse, much slower death than our hearts stopping suddenly.
Dodger wrote on Jun 29th, 2011, 4:25pm:I kind of agree with you point and I kind of disagree. I have had car accidents and some have been very bad. However I don't fixate on them like I have done with these benign palpitations.
I still feel it is (at least for me) more of an unknown, uncontrollable event that comes out of the blue and seems to have no rhyme or reason. This is what disturbs me the most. After a car accident I can say " This happened because this happened". Before I found this forum and the great people on it, when I had palpitations I did not understand why they were happening. There was no concise reason for them starting, ending or length of them occurring. When they stopped I still did not have any information about what had just happened or why. The unknown is what was causing my anxiety and fears.
When I have had accidents. Ok let me clear up about the accidents and I do mean plural. I race cars for a hobby. I have had accidents that would cause some people to walk for the rest of their lives

. Anyway when I have had accidents I have never not gotten back into a car. When I have had palpitations I have stopped the activity that I was doing when they happened. If I had just eaten a particular food and I has a palpitation I stopped eating that food. If I was doing an activity when they happened I would not do that activity again. I have since realized that this is not the way to live. Today I had a small palpitation event that not to long ago would have had me running to a doctor or ER. Instead I just relaxed let it pass and went about my day.
So I have rambled enough for now I just thought I would share my thoughts on the current topic and how it was helping me.
Hope you all are doing well and take care